Subjecting children to homosexual deviance is the ultimate child abuse. You may want the little girl who happens to live with you to think you and your friend form some sort of family, and so what that means is you need to provide the illusion of normalcy. Showing affection with a homosexual lover is unnatural and disgusting, but you’re free to do what you like. Subjecting innocent children to that sort of filth is as deviant, wicked and reprehensible as any crime committed against children. When pedophiles attack children they do so to directly cause suffering, but what you do is far more dangerous. Your deviant sexual proclivities, foisted upon a young child, set that hurt deep into their soul.
I pray for the little girl who lives in your house with your friend (that’s all you really have there, anyway; a family is a family and you have no right to twist the word to fit your own wicked, warped excuse for a life); I pray that she will come through this without too many scars (though there will be many) and she can someday find truth, and God, and a man who loves her and makes her come to know that was the only real happiness she would ever find. God bless her, and I pray for you as I do for all of those who subvert God’s will.